definitely, maybe... i don't know?

recently i watched definitely, maybe with my best friend's sister and her boyfriend. i definitely enjoyed the movie, no maybes bout that. and true to the chick flick that it is, i teared a lil at the end like a girly girl. but i also found myself pondering a few things...

i mean what am i supposed to get outta this movie?

is it that even the seemingly sweetest guy can make out with someone the day before he's intending to propose to someone else?

is it that even if you cheat on your partner with his roommate, things could work out eventually and you guys could marry and have a kid... but oh yeah you'd get a divorce?

is it that a guy will marry you despite all the while holding on to a physical memory of his real true love? (and since i'm on that, i have questions bout the movie plot... why did he marry his wife anyway? did he knock her up? did he settle thinking that there was no more hope for him and his true love?)

is it that even though you may not have actually dated each other but you can still be each other's true love?

or maybe it's just really all bout timing... and timing? honestly it's been kicking my ass...