Thursday, April 10, 2008

the rich crowd

i had half prepared for it to be relatively boring tuesday night. and then guy 3 aka the rich kid came online and we chatted for a bit.

the rich kid: let's go for coffee now
jo: are you serious?
jo: haha!
the rich kid: yeah
the rich kid: now

and so an hour later, we met up for coffee at a location relatively near my place.

it was really good to chat with him. and i think he felt likewise. we just talked bout everything and nothing at all.

through the course of the conversation, i started getting this feeling that he was pretty well to do. but 3 hours later when he offered to drive me home, i knew for sure... he drove a mercedes sports car.

but i just liked that there weren't any airs bout him. and that we got along well. i also felt that there was more to him than just a guy who liked to hang out at the bar. and while i claim that i'm not quick to judge all bar/club guys (afterall i myself do party regularly and i still consider myself to be a good girl), it's nice to know the other side of a person when he's not drinking.

that said, we met up again last night for drinks at the bar that we met initially on saturday. quite a few of his friends were there, including the nice shirt guy and the girl that i met on saturday. and that's when it got a bit confusing...

everything the girl said was obviously hinting like there was something between me and the nice shirt guy. which there so isn't. he's perfectly nice and all but i'm just not attracted to him.

the problem is 'coz i kinda like the rich kid (and no, it's not a money thing 'coz the nice shirt guy is rich too). and that's complicated. 'coz let's just say that even if he were to be interested in me, he might step back 'coz his friend was the one who wanted to get to know me first. i mean we didn't even get to talk much last night.

not that there's anything at all with us. we're still playing the friends card. and i get the feeling that he has a lot of friends including females. i'm not sure if he's the player type... somehow i don't really get that vibe... but you never know. i just like hanging out with him and well honestly, i'm a bit interested as well...

but something has to be said bout a guy who makes me wanna really hang out with him doing 'normal' stuff like having coffee and watching movies instead of just drinking. and afterall he himself mentioned before that he doesn't party when he's attached and that sometimes the drinking thing just gets boring.

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At 11:10 PM, Blogger A Dating Diary said...

its funny how weird it is now to hang out with a guy and not drink. a very surreal experience.

sounds like you had fun! yay!

At 7:34 AM, Blogger The Ambiguous Blob said...

Hmmmm... can't wait to see how this develops.

At 9:36 AM, Blogger Ginormous Boobs said...

Yeah, the drinking does get boring.

At 5:28 AM, Blogger The Ambiguous Blob said...

not that GB would know. Wimpy drinker.

At 1:01 AM, Blogger jo said...

ambiguous blob: haha! i love how you're "dissing" GB here...

well i agree that drinking does get boring after a while... especially when you're nursing a hangover. but how quickly one forgets that feeling and when the weekend come around, you're always up for another round.

the good thing bout drinking is that i get crazier. otherwise i'm quite sure i'm the poster girl for the safe and boring. heck i'm already that girl even while tipsy haha1

At 1:10 AM, Blogger Ginormous Boobs said...

Just cuz I don't drink all the time doesn't mean I don't hang out with raging alcoholics...DUH

At 2:16 AM, Blogger jo said...

and then laugh at those raging alcoholics and live to tell 'em their raging alcoholic behavior haha! sweet!


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