when you find that maybe it's not as bad as you thought after all...

she's good... that one... the "other woman"...

she was actually the one who suggested over the weekend to the alpha boy that we all meet up for dinner yesterday since she would be meeting him earlier as he was helping her settle some travel insurance claim.

and so we did. and she even got me a lil gift from her trip. i thought that was really sweet of her.

i was surprised at myself when i found myself hugging her hello and goodbye easily. then again i'm a big hugger so that has never been a big deal for me. even when she hugs him. okay well truthfully maybe a wee bit of a deal initially but i'm getting over that pretty fast.

dinner was enjoyable. i've said it before and i'll say it again, i really do like her. and i really do think we get along. i think in some strange way the alpha boy might be happy bout that 'coz then at least us girls seem to amuse ourselves.

i really don't think it's all some elaborate 'plan' of hers to get me on her side while she carries out some devious plot. i think she, probably like me, thinks that it's important that we get along since we're bonded by the alpha boy. and since i get along fabulously with all of the alpha boy's friends anyway, why should she be any different?

'coz she's his ex? yeah well i guess i'm kinda starting to just accept it...