Wednesday, October 28, 2009

the weekend in point

the weekend that passed was certainly some sort of interesting. but a time spent with the "other woman" sometimes seeks to "drain" me or plant further questions in my head that it sometimes just gets tiring.

so since i seem to be lacking in the ability to construct full sentences and paragraphs on the time spent with her, i'll do this in point form:
  • i've decided that she's kinda flaky. she suggested that we all have dinner together on saturday night before the play but at the last minute could not decide if she wanted to have dinner though in the end (as circumstances, which i have no desire to get into 'coz it's just long and boring, would have it) we did all have dinner together. another case in point being that she suggested that she and i meet up on monday but at the time when we were supposed to meet, she had just woken up. i decided not to rush to meet her and called it off.
  • the play was pretty funny and i did enjoy myself
  • i'm known to be pretty bubbly and energetic but she's so hyper that i realised that i tend to be quieter around her
  • i did not appreciate it when she briefly leaned her head on the alpha boy, rested her hand on his hand/arm/knee or told him albeit somewhat jokingly, "i love you darling" when he helped her carry her heavy bag
  • while i did not appreciate it, i had no idea what exactly to say
  • i find myself really wishing she would get attached
  • but much as i know that it's really hard for me to find someone (reasons being i've been told that i'm rather intimidating to most guys even though i'm seriously not trying to scare anyone), it's much harder for her 'coz she's rather fiesty and hard to deal with to boot
  • but of 'coz she has like tons of guys interested in her and who would bend over backwards and do anything for her. anything.
  • which then makes me wonder how come i never got that. ever.
  • oh right maybe 'coz she's hot and an actress who used to model
  • okay so maybe, just maybe, my esteem takes a wee bit of a hit with her
  • but honestly she's nice and i do like her. and i'm not just saying that
  • i'd like her a heck of a lot more if she were just more normal friends with the alpha boy
sunday was a much better day when the alpha boy came over to my place and it was just us chilling out watching a dvd, chatting, sorting our some of his work things and stuff. i could do with more of that.



At 3:32 AM, Blogger Kate said...

Hmmmm interesting posts. I agree there can be some wonderful people that make you feel like crap in comparison. Hope it works out. By the way just discovered your blog and have been spending an interesting ten minutes catching up!

Kate x

At 12:20 PM, Blogger jo said...

kate: thanks for stopping by. your blog looks really interesting too! and yeeah, it would be better if said wonderful person who can make me feel like crap in comparison wasn't my boyfriend's ex!

At 9:21 AM, Blogger Dater at Large said...

I think the key word here is "ex". It doesn't matter how wonderful or bubbly or pretty or whatever she seems, she isn't the right fit for alpha boy. He fits you.

And nice or not, she should know better than to flaunt around her ex and pretend they're friends (whether they are or not) and like she's not trying to make you feel jealous, just a little, on purpose.

At 2:05 PM, Blogger jo said...

dater at large: i know she isn't the right fit for the alpha boy and i'm not worried that either one of 'em still has any romantic feelings for the other. with 'em both so aware that they were disastrous for each other, it's just not possible that they will ever hook up again.

but they ARE really good friends though i have no idea if maybe on some level she might be trying to make me feel just a lil jealous... seriously it would be so much easier if all his close friends were male and none of 'em his ex haha!

At 1:31 AM, Blogger SaneAndSingle said...

The "other woman" just sounds like she loves attention in general. Why don't men see through that?

At 11:38 PM, Blogger jo said...

saneandsingle: i believe you are right in that i think the "other woman" loves attention in general. i think the men just go with that 'coz she's hot, has an infectious energy and is a rather nice person.


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