Monday, March 22, 2010

i just need some fun and excitment

the online social utility site greeted me with updates on the latest pictures that the swedish guy was tagged in. a dodgy night out with hats. he looked like he and a whole bunch of friends were having fun.

it's not like i don't try and have some fun with my friends. in fact i just had a friday night with my (now ex) party girl, the yummy mommy and the ungirly hottie where we had dinner and spent all of 2 hours in a club with 2 drinks each. but it's just that somehow it's either i'm not in the loop of fun, not finding the usual previously fun things i used to do all that fun or that my closer friends aren't fun anymore.

so all i've been left with is the feeling that in the past year i've just been boring and i don't even know what to do for fun anymore. i feel like i should shake things up. enjoy myself. but i don't have heaps of friends left or enough time at all to do the all sorts of things that i don't even know what i could be doing.

don't get me wrong. i do find pleasure in the lil things like chilling out with the alpha boy at home and that's great. but i suppose sometimes i just find myself wishing that my life could be a lil more exciting and i don't even know what to do.



At 1:56 PM, Blogger Please Don't Eat With Your Mouth Open said...

I had a similar feeling last week. So I decided to get literally back on the bus and get smashed every night. You soon get back into it.

At 9:38 AM, Blogger jo said...

please don't eat with your mouth open: haha! i never quite thought bout getting back on the horse and just drinking myself to oblivion :P but hope you had fun!

At 2:55 PM, Anonymous G/W said...

Ditto what mouth open said. I went through this no-alcohol phase last year and turned into a serious Debbie. Started drinking again and voila, I'm back.
But obviously, that may not be the solution for you. Maybe you've just changed? The things that you thought were fun aren't fun any more because you've grown out of them. It's not that you're boring, it's just that you need to find what you consider fun now and do it more often instead of reverting to doing what you used to do and trying to convince yourself you're having a fun time.

At 4:22 PM, Blogger jo said...

g/w: i believe that you're absolutely right. i do think i've changed. i used to be actually interested in partying and drinking (though not in that "i'm alcoholic" kinda way) but now the thought of drinking doesn't even appeal to me in the least. i feel like i've out grown my past way of life and entered into a different phase. or maybe i just aged haha! i think this part is the hardest. trying to find out what i consider fun now. and it feels like i'm so consumed with work and as a result tired out half the time that i don't have the time to figure it out yet.

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At 7:18 AM, Blogger nico said...

ugh i think i know what you mean here.. i feel like i am totally boring now *yawn fest* i dont like listening to new dj acts (most of them kinda suck) concerts are too expensive- i think, i could buy a shit load of food (or weed) with that money... i never think of traveling anymore... ive been so bored i thought i wanted to move to another (larger) city... but then i decided to just try to chill out and live it up, where i am, and be content with my own successfully carried out plans... (like go to the planitarium on a date- gotta start somewhere right)

At 5:19 PM, Anonymous Sid said...

OM do I hear you. I have the same feeling. My life is boring and I have no idea how to make it more exciting. A trip abroad perhaps? But that only brings excitement for a few months. And then what???

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