Monday, January 18, 2010

this is where i act like sherlock holmes

there are days when i purport to do some stalking on the online social utility site. and recently that's precisely what i did. i had a glorious time going through various profiles when i somehow wound up at dj guy's page.

early last month i found out (via my favorite stalking device and some inference) that dj guy and his ex fiancee broke up. but what i found out this time is that it looks like he's attached to someone new.

so basically in september his ex fiancee posted a pic of them together with the caption "my luv and i". that leads me to believe that they were still together then.

but come november, dj guy is tagged in a couple of other cozy pictures with another girl. now, that isn't too surprising in itself. afterall he does take cozy looking pictures with different girls that could really have just been intepreted as friendly. but my spidey senses were set off when i saw that this same girl had been leaving lovey-dovey wall messages of the "love you baby! *muacks*", "gud morning beibi ~~~ missing u so much! *cuddlez&kisses*" and "miss u lotz darlz... *muacks*" variety. (and incidentally, yes, i nearly gagged at the messages and spelling) hence i concluded that she isn't just a friend. and that was proven by an "in a relationship" status message i saw on her site in december.

again that's all well and good. except that you have to note that in that 3 months from september to december he had somehow broken up with his fiancee of 1.5 years who was also his on/off girlfriend for years before and started dating someone new?? better yet, the three of them are all friends as seen from the sharing of mutual friends, various pictures and messages that the ex fiancee leaves on the new girlfriend's page. and of 'coz there was the whole changing back and forth from being "in a relationship" and "it's complicated" status messages on the new girlfriend's page.

go figure they say "it's complicated".

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9 Comments:

At 12:56 AM, Anonymous All Women Stalker said...

Facebook is truly wonderful, huh? Haha

What is with this "muacks?"

 
At 10:14 AM, Blogger jo said...

all women stalker: i believe it's supposed to be like a kissing sound? crazy i know haha!

 
At 1:07 PM, Blogger Please Don't Eat With Your Mouth Open said...

Hehe, I love the way you call it the online social utility site.

Or, to be less long winded....Facebook.

Go on, say it...I dare ya ;)

 
At 10:36 PM, Blogger Dater at Large said...

Oh, I heart FB stalking. Especially on pages where people do things like constantly change their relationship status.

 
At 8:36 AM, Blogger You Make My Date said...

Wow....they are the definition of "it's complicated"! In fact, rather than having "it's complicated" as the fb status, the status should read, "it's like guy X, girl Y, and girl Z"!

Way to go Sherlock :)

 
At 12:31 PM, Blogger jo said...

please don't eat with your mouth open: i. can't. say... face... book. :P

dater at large: i think that people should constantly change their relationship status just for my amusement haha! and don't get me started on those couples who keep taking a break. so it's like "in a relationship with XXX", "in a relationship", "it's complicated" or they just leave out the relationship status entirely.

you make my date: haha! that's certainly good for the multi daters :P

 
At 9:43 AM, Anonymous G/W said...

DJ Guy sounds like some bad news.
Facebook relationships are just too complicated. I'm sick of my friends calling me up in hysterics because their boyfriend decided to "end relationship" or unfriend them or something. Honestly.

 
At 2:30 AM, Blogger Kate said...

Ah facebook stalking - such a bad idea and yet so addictive. I have slushy messages on it too!

Kate xx
http://secretofficeconfessions.blogspot.com/

 
At 8:23 AM, Blogger Rann said...

Honestly, I love you're blogs haha

 

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