you be carrie and i'll be charlotte

it's been nothing short of fabulous having one of my good friends in town for the last few weeks. with most of my close friends one by one moving miles away, it's much appreciated when i once again seem to have some semblance of a social life.

the reason why this particular friend of mine has been back more often of late is 'coz she's going through a divorce. in fact, she's thinking of perhaps moving back. selfishly, i would love to have her back again. though of 'coz it's sad bout the divorce, even though she was the one who called it quits and frankly is totally over it.

our conversations lately have been mainly on her crushes and essentially me living vicariously through her as she goes through all of this. she never really dated much before she got met her soon-to-be ex husband 8 years ago so this dating thing is still all very new to her. and well, i have "loads of experience" in that area.

it was also really interesting to find that she was refreshingly open when we talked bout sex. in fact it was her who brought up some "taboo" topics. it was just like our own 2-party sex and the city type conversation. i'll definitely miss her when she leaves in a few days time.