Tuesday, May 24, 2011

bad boys bad boys, whatcha gonna do when they come for you

you know the story... less than a year ago, my best friend's sister broke up with her boyfriend of 4 years. less than 3 months after that she found a new boyfriend. 4 months after that she broke up with him. less than 1 month after that she started seeing a new guy that she met while she was totally drunk on one of the many nights. and now, 4 months later, they have decided to become exclusive.

the thing is, this new boyfriend? he's a badboy and bad company. so bad in fact that when she brought him back home for dinner with her sister (my best friend) and her sister's boyfriend (she lives with the both of them), my best friend's boyfriend (who is this big tough blue collar worker dude but a lovely guy) later told her to "never bring back this *bleeper* back to his house again".

she shared that she just can't stay away, as is the usual draw of the badboy. her friends think that they both create utmost chaos when together. and she herself is expecting drama in this relationship. but she reckons it's better than being bored.

i keep reminding myself that she's 23. these things happen when you're that age. and that even ridiculously logical and level headed me had her "crazy" years too (granted at a later age of 25). but i guess it's also 'coz being childhood best friends with her sister and, at 8 years my junior, i've essentially watched her grow up since she was a baby and come to view her almost as my little sister too. but i guess, she's not exactly "little" anymore...


At 12:00 AM, Blogger Dater at Large said...

Aw, they're so cute at that age! She'll tire of him soon enough and there will be a big, dramatic, emotional breakdown afterward. And while it may not be pretty, it will likely be entertaining to watch. Then you'll be back in big sister role, consoling her and dispensing all your hard earned advice. I say enjoy it (vicariously of course!).

At 11:50 AM, Blogger jo said...

dater at large: likely to be very true... i just hope she stays safe and keeps her heart intact.

At 3:29 AM, Anonymous dateing sites said...

Perhaps, that bad boy has great charisma that enthralls the interest of your sister and she could not easily let go of him. And maybe she is also looking for a companion that will always be there whenever she needed one.


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