Friday, July 18, 2008

a possible new guy friend

bout 3 months ago i got to know this guy friend of my new party BFF. since then we met up another time while partying where we exchanged numbers. nearly a month ago he surprised me by suddenly calling me. i honestly thought that he had accidentally dialed my number. we had a short though pleasant chat.

recently he called me again. he invited me to for a movie event and since i'm not one to pass up on movies i actually wanna watch, i agreed.

so last night we met up. and by some hilarious mess up, turns out that we got the date of the event wrong. it was the day before! so we wound up having dinner instead and then just walking around. we even went to the bookstore together ('coz incidentally we both love bookstores) where we each chose a book for the other from the genre of books that we like. it wound up to be a pretty fun time.

but before everyone else gets too excited... i'm not interested in him at all. and this isn't going to change even if i tried to "give him a chance" or whatever. he's just not what i'm looking for in a partner. but he's definitely someone i wouldn't mind having as a friend. and i guess an impromptu fun time is always appreciated.



At 9:31 PM, Blogger SaneAndSingle said...

What is it that makes him unsuitable as a partner?

At 10:30 PM, Blogger Scotty said...

I have the same question.

But, at the very least someone else to hang out with is definitely good.

At 12:51 AM, Blogger jo said...

saneandsingle & scotty: well for one, i have zero attraction to him. and although we can kinda get by conversation wise, i certainly don't feel any rapport with him. and we don't share similar values either. but well it's always good to have an extra friend...

At 8:26 AM, Anonymous Ecrivain said...

LOL...all you had to say is, "I'm not interested in him at all. And this isn't going to change even if I tried to 'give him a chance' or whatever."

Enough said. I get it.

Sometimes, the guy's perfectly nice...but thinking about holding his hand (nevermind anything else), just gives you a case of the "ick."

At 9:13 PM, Blogger jo said...

ecrivain: haha! i do have this litmus test of some sorts to tell if i'll ever be attracted to a guy. if i can't imagine kissing him then that's it, i'm definitely not attracted.

At 8:58 AM, Blogger SaneAndSingle said...

ecrivain...LOL!! I sooo know that feeling of the "ick"! I've tried to force relationships with good guys that I wasn't attracted to, and it just doesn't work. It's cool though when they are happy being friends also.


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