red flags

if the red flags didn't already go up for the "booty caller", they are certainly going up now...

in a recent conversation, he said that he had broken up with the other girl. i'm not sure if they were ever officially together in the first place but that doesn't matter. afterall i know all too well the grey area of a pseudo relationship and it doesn't make the hurt any less real or painful.

so naturally i asked what happened and he said it was a long story and didn't go into details (which is fine really 'coz i mean whatever right?) but he did say that she asked him bout money. specifically why he still didn't have any money despite working for that long.

now i know that money is one of those big issues in relationships. i don't know what his finances are but i must admit that having the other girl ask bout it makes me wonder. i mean i'm not exactly making a mint but i like to think that generally i've got quite a good saving system going on. and i would like my guy to be financially stable as well.

but beyond all that, i was kinda amused that he asked me if i was free tonight 'coz he really wanted some "beach company and a good kiss".

i mean seriously? dude you just broke up like 2 seconds ago?

and better yet, when i gave him my reason for heading home as 'coz i had been sick enough to take a sick day off the day before and i wanted to rest, he didn't even think to ask me how i was feeling until much later. which just shows his general lack of concern. couple that with his apparent only concern being his pleasure, i'm seeing red flags galore.

and all this even before any face to face meeting...