Monday, December 21, 2009

won't you just take me by the hand

apparently a lot can be said bout a couple just by watching how they hold hands. none of which i would actually know bout, but that's what they say.

so i spent some time checking out how other couples hold hands. perhaps it sounds a bit voyeuristic, but really, it's all right out there in the open anyway.

there were those who held hands palm to palm while others interlaced their fingers. and then came the question of whose hand was on top, the girl or the guy's.

i took a look at how the alpha boy and i held hands. a few friends had commented before stating that we held hands differently from the supposed norm. we interlace our fingers which is relatively normal. what's different is that my hand is on top of his.

i checked out other couples again and realised that for the most part, the guy's hand was on top. they say it's a sign of dominance in the relationship. i totally disagree since i'm positive that i'm not the dominant one.

but i remember when we first started holding hands. the alpha boy naturally held my hand with our fingers interlaced and his hand under mine. it felt a lil strange 'coz i was used to my hand usually being under. so i switched position. but for some reason i realised that with him, my hand being under just felt strange. and so i switched back.

i guess we're kinda just stuck now with this apparently out of the norm way of holding hands, whatever that may or may not mean.



At 8:20 AM, Blogger You Make My Date said...

I really, really want to insert a immature joke about whether Alpha's hand size has anything to do with the position of your hands...and whether that has anything to do with something else...but I'll refrain :)

At 12:02 PM, Blogger jo said...

you make my date: hahaha! yes i figured those jokes might erm... arise? haha!

At 12:27 PM, Anonymous Red Ribbon said...

I guess it means that he's willing to submit under you. hehehe. Anyway, please visit this dating site. thanks. Nice blog. :D

At 8:10 AM, Blogger Jenny DB said...

I think its just whichever way is more comfortable??

At 10:21 AM, Blogger jo said...

jenny db: i totally agree. although recently it has been reinforced that our way of holding hands must be certifiably weird 'coz my mom actually asked me if i didn't like to hold his hand or something 'coz the way we held hands looked uncomfortable haha!


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