Saturday, January 31, 2009

you know, i think i could get used to this

the swedish guy invited me out to a friday night drinking club. it's far less of a club then you would imagine. basically it's a free for all kinda thing. and sometimes you could meet people who you can click with and have a good chat with and some other times you could just feel stressed out at being "forced" to be social and make small talk.

i don't do small talk very well. i mean i like to think that i'm rather extroverted, outgoing and friendly but it is also dependent on that thing known as the vibe.

so i did have some relatively quiet moments at the friday night drinking club. the swedish guy claims that he's bad at just making conversation with strangers but honestly i think he's better at it than i am. there were times where a few of us were engaged in some kind of conversation or we were both talking to someone else or we were talking to each other. i suppose all in all it wasn't that bad. but it also isn't something that i want to subject myself to on a regular basis.

it was much easier later when it was just him and me. we went out in search of a jazz club nearby but it was closed. faced with the decision of where to go and what to do, we wound up at his place watching dvds.

which of 'coz by now just means us cuddling on the couch watching dvds, stopping to make out, watching more dvds and then stopping to make out.

honestly i can't say it's all that bad.



At 7:37 AM, Blogger SaneAndSingle said...

Wow! I really need to get back to blogging and reading blogs. I've been on a mental vacation!

Sounds like the swedish guy might be kinda cool! :)

At 10:01 AM, Blogger jo said...

saneandsingle: yes i've missed you and your blogging.

yeah the swedish guy is pretty cool. i'm just confused as to what is or is not happening or whatever. geez i hate this part.


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