if there is no happy ending it means that the film is not done yet

the swedish guy and i met up last night. the plan was to have dinner and then head back to his place to finish watching the bollywood movie we started on the last time.

we had a nice dinner at a brazilian meat restaurant and then made our way back to his place. the movie was longer than expected and at some point seemed to drag on a lil. but on the whole it wasn't too bad for our first bollymood movie.

after the movie ended, he played a cd by the travelling wilburys where we had a hilarious time dancing to the wilbury twist. and then more hilarity ensued when we tried to figure out how flexible the other was. (it's not as dirty as it sounds haha!)

it was a lovely time. but as with all other times, i'm just not entirely sure if we're really good friends or he likes me but he's just shy. well he claims he's shy... and i'm actually inclined to believe him... but even then, shy guys are capable of making a move aren't they?

i'm finding it sorta incredible that i've been at his place alone twice for a few hours and nothing has happened. nothing at all. i mean sure he tickles me pretty often and he does sometimes come up and puts his face really close to mine. but other than that, nothing.

i mean taking it slow is good and all... but it's hard when you're not sure at all if he may or may not be interested. and i don't really wanna get too emotionally involved if he isn't. i don't "love" (or whatever love might be) him, that is still unfortunately reserved for drummer boy (who btw has contacted me again), but i definitely like him.

so he asked me out for dinner on friday... we'll see if anything might happen then...