but hey just let me run out and buy a nurse's outfit
after 3 weeks of not meeting up with the swedish guy, i've honestly missed him. (nevermind that it didn't even take me 3 weeks to miss him) so last week i texted him bout catching a movie, of which he responded favorably.
we were supposed to meet tonight but at lunch time he texted that he wasn't feeling too well and was gonna take a raincheck. i battled a lil on how to respond. i then decided to just go with it and attempt to be a lil more obvious in my interest (just in case i wasn't already obvious enough by asking him out so to speak).
basically i volunteered my nursing services (and mind you i'm no nurse) to nurse him back to health and he in turn joked if i would come in a nurse's outfit. but then thanked me for the offer but he didn't want me to get sick.
all well and good. i'm not sure how to take it but i'm gonna leave it. i guess he should find me now if he wants to meet up right? or do i get to do the nice thing and just check in with him on how he's feeling tomorrow?
it's tough. i mean i go back and forth on wanting to do something that i would probably do (even to friends) but i wished that i didn't have to think so much bout it and how he would take it.
Labels: the swedish guy
posted by jo @ 2:26 PM
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if there is one thing i've learned in dating it is to just go with your heart. forget all the rules, forget the "what ifs...", who cares... if you want to text him & ask how he is, then do it! if he reacts poorly and thinks its too pushy or forward, then that is his loss...
caterpillar85: seriously? so basically if i wanna contact him, i should just do it? and not overthink bout what he might think or if i'm coming on too strong or if i should play the game better? sheesh this is hard.
Personally, I'd send something saying hope you're feeling better, give me a text when you're feeling well enough to go out.
That way you've left it with him. He knows where you are, he knows you're interested, it's just up to him to make some effort. No game play required, it's just common curteousy required on his part.
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