Thursday, May 07, 2009

leave the past in the past

for some strange reason, one of the hardest things was to figure a way to tell drummer boy that i'm attached.

given our recent "dealings" with each other, with him asking if he could have another chance and all that IM flirting he's been doing, i felt like i kinda needed to tell him. besides it was getting really hard to keep trying to avoid him. i guess i didn't think it was fair either. but it was hard 'coz of our history, how much he meant to me at one point and also 'coz i still want to be friends with him.

the opening came when we were IMing and he suddenly asked bout what i wanted from my other half. that sparked a bit of a conversation on that when i suddenly blurted.

jo: btw i recently got attached

i'm not sure what i expected. but it was nice to get a rather friendly reply.

drummer boy: serious?? congrats!!!
drummer boy: who's the lucky guy

i didn't really go into it. i didn't really want to and he didn't really persist. but we continued to have a nice conversation bout music and other stuff. all in all wasn't too bad at all. and i feel relieved that i've finally told him.



At 9:53 AM, Blogger judæs said...

came across your blog when I was searching about Define-the-Relationship talk, got to the Drummer Boy and you and the Pseudo Relationship.

Quite exactly like the state i am in.

And I have to admit, i feel like you & i are similar in a lot of way.

and we're both Leos. :P Glad you've found Alpha Boy.

At 12:42 AM, Blogger jo said...

judæs: thanks for dropping by. it's always great to know that there are other people out there feeling the same way as i do. hope it all works out for you :)

At 1:32 AM, Blogger SaneAndSingle said...

Damnit! You became attached while I wasn't looking! Congrats! I wish you the best!


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