happy busy days

today i'm a happy girl. nevermind that it's been a busy busy day and i'm tired. but i'm a happy girl and everything seems better today 'coz i'm happy.

why you may ask?

well in case anyone is curious, i have still been checking out someone's blog. and in his recent post he mentioned that he met up with 2 good guy friends of his and somehow the talk led to girlfriends. he does not have a girlfriend, he was quick to add. and me being all pathetic like that, is really happy bout his single status. as though that may give me some hope of some kind.

but more than that he talked bout his views on relationships and we're on the same page (as i've always known but it's good to confirm it again). in a nutshell, i've never believed in the 'other half' concept. i think you should be complete yourself and not look for someone to complete you but complement you.

he says that he's ready for such a relationship though he's not in any hurry and believes timing is everything. which once again echos my own views. much as i may seem like i'm in a hurry, i'm not exactly. i mean i'm ready for a relationship but that doesn't mean i'm gonna be in a real rush and pick any ole tom, dick and harry off the street. sure i talk and maybe even obsess bout various guys sometimes. i mean which girl doesn't? but doesn't mean i'm ready to settle though i'm ready to settle down.

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out of office eye candy called me twice today. we didn't get to have much of a chat mainly 'coz the auditor was sitting right next to me for practically the whole day, quizzing me on the aspects of my work. but he and i still got in some of our usual friendly joking around. which led me to realise that if someone heard me on the phone with him, they probably wouldn't even realise that i was talking to a colleague. we just sound so much like friends when we're on the phone... except for the whole part where we have a work conversation that is.