tales of kissing

last night, my party girl, the yummy mommy and i decided to have some mid-week fun and headed to the cozy hole-in-the-wall bar for a drink (or 2 or maybe 5 drinks...)

shortly after who should turn up but our friend who got married recently and her husband, the ex bar manager. yes that would be her wedding where i met and wound up kissing the guy from the wedding. and a week after her wedding she had texted me telling me that he was a nice guy. only that at that time she used his name (which i entirely forgot) so i didn't really know who she was talking bout or how she knew and kinda figured she must have gotten me mixed up with someone else. anyhow when i saw her again last night, she reiterated bout how that guy was a nice guy. and then her husband chimed in saying that he saw the video from his wedding and was all "i know what you did on my wedding night".

there was a video??

that kinda freaked me out a lil. and especially more so since later one of the cozy hole-in-the-wall bar owners who i know came up to me with this knowing look on his face, saying that he saw the wedding video. and then it got even worst when my friend's husband started telling the bartender aka dj guy that he knew what i did on my wedding night.

that had dj guy asking me what did i do on that wedding night. he claimed that my friend's husband told him but i'll never know if he really does know. anyhow i didn't let on anything. not that i did anything wrong.

dj guy and i had a big time flirting session. we were in the middle of the bar when he stepped close to me. so close that his face was merely an inch from mine. and we had a staring session. that continued again later in a more secluded part of the bar. this time we were close enough to rub noses and exchange a soft kiss. some parts of the staring session was more playful teasing though at times it did get a lil more of a quiet kind of intense. he said that he needed to take a cold shower.

we did chat a lil as well. some flirty talk and some proper talk. once again he brought up bout that time he went all the way to another bar to meet me. that must have been over 1.5 years ago. but possibly one of the rare times that we met outside of cozy hole-in-the-wall bar where he's been working for quite a while.

as i was leaving, he held the door open for me. it's a lil different now when we hug goodbye. it's like there's a beat where we wonder if perhaps we'll kiss goodbye. he kissed me on the lips. and then there was another beat where we wondered if there will be another more intense kiss. if he were in the bar itself that would have been a lil tricky. but given that i was just outside the bar and he was in the door frame, we were relatively hidden. he leaned in.

this time it was all soft and sweet. as we finally parted, he commented that we need more time. i think he meant that it's just not the most convenient to be making out at his work place. i like to think that he didn't mean more time as in we weren't used to each other's kissing style yet or that we were moving too fast.

i agreed. and then finally i left.